I think the title says it all, really. This is a truly scary guy.
Why are men so terrified of committing to one woman? Can his hesitance be relieved? What makes a man commit finally? Love is the last thing on the minds of most males yet all he needs is new perspective to hear the tune differently.
Commitment is a scary thought for men because it represents everything of love, one person indefinitely, and a future he isn't sure he'll want one year from now. A woman falls in love and instantly has the wedding planned and a man knows that. All he wants right now is a relationship that makes him happy with no pressure or promises to be anything else yet. It's a scary thought for most men to commit.
He has a slower pace that deserves to be respected and followed. Avoid scaring him away by staying even with him. He says he likes you then you reciprocate. Move together at his speed to comfort him signifying he found a life friend willing to be there when he is ready to open up. Don't pressure or rush a man because he'll run. Be patient and he'll see the incredible self-less person you are.
Commitment and love are scary thoughts for most men but you can make it a natural transition they don't even realize. Talk about the things he likes to do and learn what his favorite hobbies are. The latest movie he wants to see, working in the garage, or sports may not interest you but spend some time just for him to be happy to bond. Hand him tools while he works on the car and talk in between. Make a connection and create quality time together. Ask him if he wants to see that movie this week he's wanted to go to or sit and learn about the NFL while he watches Monday Night Football.
Take care of his needs too since you plan on keeping him around for a while. Positive emotions arise when a man finds the one woman that makes him happier than he has ever been. Commitment is a scary thought for most men but sometimes reality is less harsh than he originally thought when he realizes committing to you can make him smile everyday.